Failure..

Defeat in love is very disheartening. You love some body dearly and she/he does not reciprocate your feelings at all. Or you have already gone a long distance with someone and she/he goes alone after that. Any failure in love and dating takes the strength away. It kills something inside and the defeat makes another attempt look very difficult. Is this acceptable. Can life not be carried on after such defeats? Why get disheartened and blame ones fate? Why lower self-esteem? Why do all that self-beating?

Success is not our right, nor failure our destiny. Life is a hurdle race. Every life has its ups and downs. The winner is one who gets up after falling again and again. You will say - Easier said than done. I agree. Failure in love is very destructive. We invest quite a lot in love. After that when we face defeat, we feel cheated and helpless. We feel that fate has dealt poor cards to us. It is no doubt difficult to bear the pain.

What should be done? Analyze why this failure happened, if you find any fault of your own, please correct it. If you find fault of your beloved, please forgive. Begin making contacts again. Search for your soul mate again. Have faith that this time you will get someone real good and worthy of your love. Forget the past. Erase it. Look at it dispassionately and res energize yourself. It is difficult, but it can be done.

Thinking of past failure will only bring more pain. Visualize yourself becoming successful. Think of all the good days that are waiting for you. Think of a future that will be very bright. Fight every negative feeling with something more positive. Don’t give up. After every fall rise again. Success will be yours.
#_CD*MOHATTA_#

Exhausting..

Its been long time i never fall to somebody this much since my 1st.She is beautiful like a star that shine brightly in the sky, a personality that i feel happy with. Always i will tell my friends that my car is my 1st babe that i put in the list..Sorry guys actually it's a lie, i just hope she can be my 1st babe. U guys understand right.
I fail once to express my feeling to her..Damn that a stupid situation that i done that time..really unprofessional but yes i not professional in this.hehe..may be u can say a dump guy???
Nowadays feel happy because i can contact with her..go out sometimes.Sometime feel like i got chances but sometime not through the talking and phone and sometime action.
ya i wan to express to her but i don't know whether its time or not..there's few times i want to tell her but there situation that i feel not right.
I started to feel exhausting this few days but i just cant stop think of her and finding her..but when i can look her and talk to her i start to feel happy back but then exhaust after that.. But i never go backwards, i know i need to go forward. I'll do anything for you.
Do i have to look at negative ways as sentence like "The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can‘t have them".But nah..i don't to embed this sentence in me.
I prefer the sentence like "Just because someone doesn‘t love you the way you want them to, doesn‘t mean they don‘t love you with all they have". May be she got different style from what we usually saw in public.
Sometime ya there is a pain in the eyes to look at heart-throb who attractive to many woman but i believe, just be our self.Ya i know not just me that like her but i just give my best to her.
Hopefully my birthday wish come true..
i wan you to have this...
"The feeling I have for you does that I look for you every moment. I love you!
In spite of your faults, you always appear to me very beautiful.
If in the world there is only a person like you, I do not know if I will meet her, but I surely will be able to recognize her.
All the enchantment of a love is in knowing that it will be forever".


AdIoS

慧慧点名... tagged by Lee Xin

1.小时候的理想是什么？
wanna be a professional fighter and doctor.. but cant la.. fail.hehe

2.这辈子最快乐的是什么事？
my family is happy and healthy and of course my life is stable and my love 1

3.你喜欢的颜色？
blue, black, white

4.四季里，最喜欢什么季节？
this i dunno

5.你现在有没有想念的人？
ya always but i'm a dump who dunno what to do

6.最受不了自己哪個缺點？
not really confident, laziness and a dump who know nth to chase someone he really like


7.如果有不開心的事情，你會怎麽辦?
kicking bag, eat, smoke, drink

8.最害怕失去的东西？
my family, my gal and my life. of course i not forgotten my fren

9.你現在心里想著什麼?
quite lot of things but she keep on pop the most in my mind

10.遇到喜歡的人，你是勇敢表白還是默默關注??
dunno ler..i wan too but i just weak in this, that all

11.如果再遇到以前的男/女朋友，你会希望有机会跟他复合吗？
nope..

12.目前最想吃到的东西？
many ler but sambal kerang i remember the 1st.hehe

13.现在你的MSN讯息栏上留着什么讯息？
aaron in japenese is Ronin Konoe

14.你對你的近況滿意嗎？
not really.. just dunno how to say it

15.你吃过最好吃的是什么？
my aunty food(memory) but i eat anything la as long it is food

16.如果能让你实现一个愿望，是什么？
give me another 10 wishes..hehe..of course her

17.最讨厌什么？
being cheated, being played in my relation or life

18.你很想很想对他/她说的一句话？
i know i less in many things..
我爱你


19.你的口头禅是什么?
walao..
nabeh la..
yes
hi
hello
cb
pukimak
ehhler..
eh eh eh

20.会为喜欢的人而改变自己吗？
yes i will..

21.如果和喜欢的人闹得很僵了，会选择离开还是留下？
love her till it cannot be safe..leave if cant

22.你相信天長地久的愛情嗎？
ya..but sometime not

被点的人：
piggy xin
cathy
gimson
kar wai
joan
ming

Is this what my name really means

What Aaron Means

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality. You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something. You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense. You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun. You are well rounded, with a complete perspective on life. You are solid and dependable. You are loyal, and people can count on you. At times, you can be a bit too serious. You tend to put too much pressure on yourself. You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people. You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts. You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.

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